Shut Up Already, Imposter Syndrome!

Imposter Syndrome is a liar.

It needs to shut up.

Now.

Imposter Syndrome is the experience of feeling like you are not as competent as others see you.

So do you ever feel like you’re an imposter? Like you’re nowhere near as good as people are expecting?

Like you should just give up already and go do something easy so you don’t let anybody down?

I experienced Imposter Syndrome big time when I started at law school. Oh so many years ago.

Looking at the hundreds of students around me, I thought “They deserve to be here. Not me. I got in by mistake. Harvard’s going to figure it out any minute and show me the door.”

(That actually happened to someone once! More about that in my video.)

Turns out that a lot of my fellow law students, particularly the women I talked to, had the same feeling.

Eventually we got over it and decided that maybe we deserved to be there after all.

But sometimes the strategy of waiting until you get enough experience won’t work.

So what do you do when Imposter Syndrome keeps you stuck?

An incredibly accomplished woman came to me for help getting moving on her career. She was a star in her graduate program, where her professors expected her to become an influential muckety-muck in the world of therapy for autistic children.

She was passionate about the work. Excited to get started.

And two years later she was totally stuck because…

Imposter Syndrome.

Watch the video to see how her Imposter Syndrome had limited her and what we did to release it.

If Imposter Syndrome has you questioning whether you’re really good enough to do what you’re capable of—and maybe even called to do—know that you don’t have to give in to it!

Take action.

Even if you stumble along the way.

Even if you just know you’re not as good as they all think.

Even if you’re not perfect. (And who is?!)

What you do is valuable even if you don’t feel good enough, way down deep.

And if you can’t get started, or you drag your feet, because of the lies Imposter Syndrome is whispering in your ear, let’s talk.

The world needs you to step up.

Do what you’re here to do.

Don’t let Imposter Syndrome stop you.

Tell it to shut up already.

Happy Tapping!
—Nancy

What To Do When Your New Year’s Resolutions Fail

Yep. It’s that time again.

Time to make your New Year’s resolutions. Maybe you plan to . . .

  • Finish that training you bought
  • Create your on-line course
  • Network more
  • Whatever it takes to grow your business to the next level.

You’re going to do it this time Right?!

And you start out strong. But then, in six months—Or six weeks. Or six days. Or six hours!—you find you’ve given up.

(Been there. Done that. Gave up on resolutions completely for awhile.)

But why? Why do we give up when it’s so important to us?

Well, what I’ve seen over and over again is that when your resolution goes against something in your subconscious—even if your subconscious is being irrational, illogical, or just plain stupid—your subconscious always wins.

No amount of willpower can push past your subconscious for long.

It just wears you down until you give up.

Three types of subconscious blocks I’ve seen a lot of are:

  • A belief that you need to do (or avoid) something to stay safe.
  • Others’ limiting expectations of you.
  • Seeing yourself in a limiting way. (Check out the video for examples of what each of these looks like.)

So what do you do if you can’t seem to follow through on your resolution?

Well, the fastest way to change I know of is to uncover your subconscious block and tap to release it.

If you don’t know how to do that (or you don’t have a tapping practitioner to work with), what I’d suggest is to create a daily tapping practice with your resolution. Here’s how:

  • Set aside at least 5 minutes every morning.
  • During that 5 minutes, visualize yourself taking the action you’ve resolved to take AND getting the results you want.
  • (And, most importantly) Tap while you visualize.

Tapping whittles away at the underlying fear, limiting belief, or whatever.

So it gets easier to follow through on your resolution and, eventually, create the “new you.” And new and improved business.

No willpower required.

Happy New Year and Happy Tapping!
—Nancy

The Biggest Trap Stopping Women Entrepreneurs

This is the biggest subconscious block that prevents women business owners from stepping fully into the leadership role they are called to fill.

It can underlie many of the problems that you face, like—
• The money ceiling that keeps you stuck financially,
• The fear that prevents you from speaking up,
• The fact that you just never get around to finishing your book,
• That something that holds you back so you end up watching ideal clients pass you by to go work with someone who (in your heart of hearts you know) just won’t serve them as well as you would have.

I put this underlying subconscious block under the umbrella term “Mindset.”

To be clear, all of the subconscious blocks I release for clients are mindset problems. But this one is the biggie for women business owners.

And if you’ve got it, you know how it can totally deflate you.

It’s the Who, me? reaction you get when you think about helping more people.

Or standing up and saying what you believe.

Or making a lot more money.

Or bringing about a change you know is so desperately needed in the world.

Doing what you know you could do. In a big way.

Being fully who you are called to be.

You can see the next step. The next breakthrough. The next level on the horizon.

But you stop yourself with—
• I don’t know enough yet.
• They’ll never listen to me.
• Somebody else is so much better.
• I’m not good enough.
• I don’t deserve it.
Who do I think I am?

So you stay small.

Struggling.

And yet, you have this idea. Call it a vision. A purpose. A calling.

Whatever you call it, it came to you.

Yes, other people do what you do. But no one does it exactly the way you do.

Because no one grew up the way you did. Had the same experiences you did. The same learning you did. The same passions. The same way of looking at the world.

And that is why you are being called to step up. Now.

You are needed.

You need to step up so those people who resonate with you—who need you—can find you. Can get the exact transformation only you can bring them.

In the way only you can.

If you don’t step up—if you let your Mindset blocks get in your way—the World is a lesser place.

Your people continue to suffer. (And the people in their lives won’t get the benefit of that transformation you would have created, either.)

So, yes, the World needs you. It needs the biggest you you can bring.

And if your Mindset issues are getting in the way of that, you owe it to the world to root them out and get rid of them.

Tap with me to do that. Or use another approach.

But do something.

Change your Mindset so you can show up in the biggest way you can.

Because the World needs that.

The World needs YOU.

Happy Tapping!

—Nancy

If You’ve Been Holding Yourself Back…

Last week I realized something.

In fact, it was a Divine Download. (I didn’t even know I could have one of those!)

Watch the video to hear about how it showed up for me.

Here’s what I journaled:

It’s time for all people with a bigger vision—who want to help others, who want to change the world, or just their corner of the world—to step up.

It’s time for you to have more money. A lot more money. Money to pay for the support and wield the influence you need to do what you are called to do. For all of us.

It’s time for you to trust yourself. To know you are right. To know that you are here to make a big difference.

It’s time for you to stop playing small. To let yourself be seen.

To step up and lead.

No more “Who, me? I’m not that important.”

YES. YOU. ARE!

The world needs you, now more than ever.

The world needs the biggest you that you can be.

It’s not just about taking care of yourself and your family (although that is important).

It’s about being fully you. Bringing all the power you have to your purpose so you can have the biggest impact.

To counteract what’s wrong in the world now.

The time for playing small is over.

You are called to something too important to let your old way of thinking and being hold you back.

It’s time to leave that behind.

To step up.

To lead.

For that you need money. You need support. You need visibility.

You need to believe in yourself.

So do what it takes to release what’s holding you back.

The world can’t wait anymore.

We need you NOW.

So that’s what I journaled last week. (Well, I cleaned it up a bit. But not much.)

I wanted you to see it.

Because you and your purpose are too important to play small.

The world needs the leader you can be.

Happy Tapping!

—Nancy

A Really Easy Way to Tap With Me (And Support a Great Cause)

If you’ve been on the fence, wondering what it would be like to work with me, it’s time to hop off.

I’m donating coaching time to the WLA Coachathon, which happens November 18th.

That means you can have a 45-minute session with me for only £25.

And your money goes to a wonderful cause, giving microloans to women in Africa to start businesses and work their way out of poverty. (I LOVE microloans!)

So this is a great time to try out some Tapping on anything you’d like. See how it works. See what it does for you.

As you know by now, I’m an EFT/Tapping Expert for business owners, getting rid of what holds them back from their next breakthrough in terms of money, clients and impact.

So I’m listed in the Business Coaching section on the Coachathon site.

But you don’t have to work on blocks to your business. Heck, you don’t even have to have a business! (If you don’t tell, I won’t.)

You can work with me on a block to having more money. On something you’re procrastinating doing. On something that just stresses you out. Pretty much anything.

And if I’m not your gal, there are a ton of other coaches involved. Find one who calls to you.

Here’s the link for more information on the Coachathon: https://sandragreen.lpages.co/wla-coachathon/

If you are interested—or just have some questions—reach out to me at Nancy@UnblockResults.com.

It’s fun—and you’ll be surprised at how much we can shift in 45 minutes.

Happy Tapping!

—Nancy

Tap Down Your Stress NOW

Today is election day in the US, and wherever you are, you’ve probably heard just how stressful this election has become here. For everyone.

So I wanted to get this video out to you right away.

In it I show you three (well, actually four) ways to tap to bring your stress down.

Tap along with Video Me using any of the three (or four) ways, for any kind of stress, any time—not just on election day.

Hey, it’s 2020. There’s all sorts of things you could stress out about!

Tapping will bring your stress down so you feel better and you think better. Stress plays havoc with thinking, and now is not the time to be making bad decisions.

Stay healthy. Stay safe. And don’t let stress get the better of you.

Happy Tapping!

—Nancy

Should You Wait?!

I’ve been hearing from a lot of people lately that they are waiting.

Are you?

Waiting until the US election is over . . . Until the new government is installed . . . Until a vaccine comes through.

Waiting until 2021 because you’ve written off 2020!

Waiting for something outside of yourself to change before you move forward with what you want in your life.

Oh, I totally get it—lately there have been times I’ve just wanted to hunker down with some ice cream and wait until this all blows over.

It sounds logical and rational to wait until things settle down.

But what I know from all the work I’ve done with my clients is that this kind of “waiting until” reasoning is false.

It’s really just your rational brain trying to make sense of why you aren’t going after what you want.

And there are a lot of possible reasons out there to blame for why you aren’t taking action. Especially now.

The truth is, though, that it isn’t rational to wait to start living your life until things get back to normal. Why? Well . . .
• Will things ever really get back to the way they were? No one knows for sure, but a lot of folks are starting to speculate they won’t.
• Of course there will be changes when we have an effective vaccine. And the economy improves. But no one knows how long it will take for those changes to happen. What does it benefit you to put everything on hold until then?
• And what will truly be different in your day-to-day life the day—or week, or month, or year—after the election is decided?

So why are you really waiting?

I’ve heard things like this from long before 2020.
• “I’m going to wait until I have more money.”
• “I’m going to wait until the kids are grown up.”
• “I’m going to wait until I’ve gotten certified.” Or “learned more.” Or “gotten more experience.”

There’s always something you can “wait until.”

But that’s not going to get you what you want.

If you want a big change in your life or business, the best time to go after that change is RIGHT NOW.

To do that, you need to make a change inside of you. Because what’s really holding you back is not happening on the outside.

It’s on the inside.

Change what’s going on inside of you so you can step up no matter what is happening out there.

Then you can change what’s going on in your life and maybe in other people’s lives. For the better.

So if you’ve been telling yourself you should wait, don’t listen.

Really.

Because this is your life.

Don’t wait to start living it.

If You Keep Saying “I Can’t Afford It”, This Is For You

I have some tough love for you today.

First, you should know that my Money Blocks Solution starts this Friday, October 9th.

Which means tomorrow (Tuesday the 6th) is the very last day to reach out to me and set up a call to see if there’s a fit between what you’re struggling with and my group.

That’s so we’re both ready to dive deep on Friday and start releasing what’s holding you back from making—and keeping—more money.

So I want to talk about what I know is one of the big reasons you might be thinking it’s not the right time for you to join.

Money.

I get it. It can feel like you shouldn’t pay money for something right now when money is the problem.

But hang on. How long have you been struggling with money?

If this is a pattern in your life, what’s going to change that pattern?

How are you going to have more money to invest in yourself the next time I offer the Money Blocks Solution?

By now, you probably sense that your money issues start inside of you. That there’s something keeping you from doing (or not doing) the things that will make you more money. Or keep your money around longer.

I call those internal, subconscious obstacles to improving your financial situation “money blocks.”

If you don’t get rid of them, they’re just going to keep running the show.

Keep you stuck.

Right where you are.

And if nothing changes, how will you have more money to invest in the group—or anything else you truly want—in 2021?

Or ‘22? Or ‘23? Or . . .

Plus, the longer you drag your feet on changing what’s getting in your way, the less money you will make over the course of your life.

Think about it.

If I could wave a magic wand and get rid of your money blocks today, you would start seeing more money come in. NOW.

And that would start adding up—and compounding—right away.

So the longer you wait to get rid of your money blocks, the less money you will have in your life. By a lot.

The less money . . .
• To take care of your family
• To take care of yourself
• To grow your business
• To live the way you want to
• And to do what you are here to do!

The longer you drag your feet to release your money blocks, the less money you will have in your life for all of these important things.

So if you are saying “Oh, but I don’t have the money to work with you now, Nancy,” well, then, when are you going to have it?!

Okay, no, Tapping is not a magic wand. I can’t get rid of all your blocks today. But it does get rid of money blocks.

And it works much faster than anything else I’ve ever seen.

In fact, some people working with me start noticing improvements in their actions and their money within the first week!

So I really want you to get this. If you have a money block preventing you from getting and keeping more money, waiting until you have more money to get rid of that block just won’t work.

That’s backwards!

Instead, I want to stand up for you today, especially if you can’t stand up for yourself right now.

Please. Know this:
It’s time
• You are worth it.

Reach out to me. Email me at Nancy@UnblockResults.com.

You can get rid of your money blocks.

Let’s do this.

Now.

It’s Time

Are you struggling to make the kind of money that would let you breathe easier?

That other people seem able to earn?

That you know you’re capable of making?

If so, then it’s time.

It’s time to let more money into your life.

It’s time to make the changes you need to so you can start living the way you’ve been feeling is out of reach.

It’s time to change your mind.

What am I talking about? Well, you know those money problems you have? They start out as money blocks in your subconscious.

And, because they’re in your subconscious, you usually only see the results in the real world, with no idea why you keep struggling, year after year. (Boy, do I know how crazy-making that can be!)

Luckily, your subconscious can be changed.

I know this because I’ve been getting rid of clients’ subconscious blocks to having more money for years. Literally.

It is amazing what they start seeing financially as soon as their blocks start to melt!

Right now I have two ways for you to get started making the same kind of change.

First, join my Money Blocks Solution. It’s a small, select group of people who are ready to change their old patterns and start having more money in their life. Together we go deep into the specific causes of each of their blocks, then release them. Here are more details: https://unblockresults.com/money-blocks-solution/

To see if the group is right for you, just reach out. DM me or email me at Nancy@UnblockResults.com. We’ll set up your free Money Blocks Assessment to identify your subconscious blocks to having more money in your life and see if there is a fit with the group.

And if you contact me before Friday, October 2nd—tomorrow—you get my early bird bonus as soon as you sign up for the group.

The bonus is my online program Release Your Money Blocks, filled with videos you tap along with on your own schedule to release common money blocks, raise your money ceiling, and even make the Law of Attraction start working for you.

I very rarely make Release Your Money Blocks available to anyone outside my private coaching clients, but when I do I sell it for $297. You can get it for free as a reward for taking action now.

Don’t wait though. To be eligible for that early bird special you have to reach out to me for your assessment by tomorrow (Friday).

Now I know this might not be the right time for you to join my group. And I don’t want you to wait to start changing your mind to let more money into your life.

So here’s the second way you can get started changing your subconscious . . .

You can get my Release Your Money Blocks between now and the end of the day on Friday, October 9th, for only $99. Yep, that’s way more than half off the usual price. Here you go: https://unblockresults.com/product/release-your-money-blocks/

Because it’s time.

Hit a Money Plateau? My Money Blocks Solution Starts Soon!

Are you stuck? Plateau-ed out? Can’t make more money no matter what you try?

Man, do I know how frustrating that can be!

Fortunately, there is an answer.

In my Money Blocks Solution, we use Tapping to rewrite your subconscious financial programming, getting rid of your money blocks so you can start earning—and keeping—the kind of money you know you are capable of.

It creates truly amazing results.

Don’t take my word for it, though. Listen to someone who has gone through it.

Here’s Ciara:

Before doing the Money Blocks Solution, Ciara was doing work she didn’t like and actively avoiding accepting money for it!

After joining the group, she stepped up and started creating the business she’d been hoping for.

Within a week of her first session Ciara was able to network and send out proposals.

And after finishing the Money Blocks Solution, she went from avoiding promoting herself and resisting getting paid for her services to making $5000 in her business the very next month!

Now, in spite of all the uncertainty COVID has brought, Ciara has bounced back and is not only ready to move forward with some passion projects, she’s also willing to get paid for them—something she knows she wouldn’t have been able to do before we worked together.

If you’ve been holding yourself back, limiting the kind of money coming in, you owe it to yourself to at least have a conversation about what’s really going on.

So reach out.

We’ll set up your free Money Blocks Assessment Call to identify your subconscious blocks to earning and keeping more money and to see if the group is right for you.

Now I know what can happen. You think “That’s a good idea,” and you put it on your To Do list to think about later.

But life happens, other stuff comes up, and before you know it you’ve missed the deadline.

I don’t want that to happen to you. So I’m giving you a reason to reach out NOW.

If you reach out to me by this Friday, October 2nd, to schedule a Money Blocks Assessment Call, and sign up for the Money Blocks Solution (which starts on October 9th), you get my early bird bonus.

What’s the early bird bonus? So glad you asked!

It’s my online program you tap along with to release common money blocks, raise your money ceiling, and even make the Law of Attraction start working for you.

This is already getting long, so I won’t say much more here. I promise to tell you more about the online program in my next post, though—including a way to get it even if now is not the right time to join the group.

In the meantime, reach out. Set up your Money Blocks Assessment call so you don’t miss your chance for that early bird bonus.

I’m looking forward to finding out what’s going on with you and the money you should be making!