A while back I posted a video about how growing up “gifted” (in the sense of having a high IQ) has caused procrastination in a number of my clients. The video caught the attention of Rosemary Davies-Janes, who recognized that a lot of the business owners she consults with are also gifted, and—as counterintuitive as … Continue reading Resources for Gifted Procrastinators
If lack of self-confidence is keeping you from going after the life you want, you have to meet Julie. She’s a smart woman with a mission to change the world. When she began working with me, Julie was just starting her business providing Relationship Development Intervention (RDI) to children on the Autism Spectrum and their … Continue reading You Have to Meet Julie!
In the last few months I’ve stumbled across the most counterintuitive cause of procrastination you can imagine. More than half my clients have this problem. It slows them down. It gets in the way of accomplishing their goals. And it has led them to think they’re stupid. Or lazy. Or both. The cause? Growing up … Continue reading Is Being Gifted Holding You Back?
Over the past year I’ve noticed an interesting cause of procrastination in both my clients and myself. Sometimes we procrastinate because it has become soooo hard to do something to reach a goal that we subconsciously decide it’s not worth trying. And because we feel that it’s too hard to achieve our goal, we find … Continue reading What If Your Life Were Easy?
Are you procrastinating on creating the life you want because your job is just too good to leave? Do you say things like: “I’m counting the days until retirement” “I’m bored, but I’ll never find another job that pays as well” or “I can’t do what I want. I have a family to feed.” If … Continue reading When Your Golden Handcuffs Are Holding You Back
Sometimes we procrastinate because of a metaphor. That’s what happened to my client “Rita.” Her metaphor destroyed her first business and almost did the same to her second business. Watch the video to find out where the metaphor came from, what it did to Rita, and how we finally got rid of it and … Continue reading A Surprising Cause of Procrastination
Do you find that a case of nerves can get in the way of going after what you want sometimes? Then this week’s technique can help. Usually I use Tapping with clients to get rid of their deep-seated blocks to creating the life they want. But it’s not the only trick I have up my … Continue reading How to Get More Confident in 10 Minutes or Less (video)
Two women were struggling in different ways to get past their blocks to doing what they wanted. Their difficulties were insurmountable—to them. When I looked at their situations, however, their problems seemed self-imposed, and quite easy to change. Even without tapping. "Angie" has a job she hates. She has been working toward getting certified so … Continue reading Cutting The Gordian Knot of Your Toughest Problem
"Elizabeth" had a big block. Lately she had been unintentionally sabotaging her relationships with her big clients She was worried that it was jeopardizing her business, and she was right. She needed to get rid of her block. But her block wasn’t quite what she thought it was. Elizabeth works hard at everything she does. … Continue reading One Very Good Reason You Might Be Sabotaging Your Business
This is a bit outside the realm of my usual tips on how to get past internal blocks, but a number of clients have needed to use informational interviewing in the past few months. I haven’t been able to find a good, comprehensive article to send them to in order to learn the nuts and … Continue reading Seven Steps to a Successful Informational Interviewing Campaign